After all, the more you know about what your body appreciates the most, the better the sex with your partner. I talked to 20 college students about how they masturbate. I either think about my boyfriend or watch intimacy videos that we created, or just hop on a porn website. Well, young for what I grew up believing.
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The first time I really masturbated in a hot-damn-give-yourself-an-orgasm kind of way was a lot more memorable. But boy, did I use it. And thanks to Freddy, I was introduced to the magical power of the clitoris in unlocking orgasms and enlisted his help multiple times a week until the sad day he eventually went kaput. We asked women to share their first experiences masturbating. I started rubbing myself on the carpet when all the kids were sitting in a circle at preschool. When I discovered that the persistent, insistent stream of water directed at my clitoris made my thighs quiver, I learned to lie down in the tub, plant my feet on the cold tile and ride wave after wave of orgasm. I was about 7 or 8 years old. Masturbation was the time in my life I felt most safe, most joyful in my body and most alive, in an otherwise rocky childhood. I thought I had just discovered some incredible secret!
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Recent studies have revealed that women who use vibrators are healthier -- and sexually happier -- than women who don't. Finally, the stigma of the sinful sex toy is fading and women can hold their Rabbits and Pocket Rockets proud. So if good vibrations are good and good for us sexually evolved women, are they good for our daughters too? This question came up recently on my website, truuconfessions -- when a mom shared the following:. DD dear daughter says "isn't masturbating safer then having sex? Don't know how to handle this one ladies!!!! While I have no problems with masturbation go for it! I think 12 is a little young to buy them vibrators.
We believe that sharing our experiences is a great way to foster conversation and work towards our goal of destigmatizing sexuality. So, naturally, we asked our community to tell us about their journey to masturbation. I was on the playground climbing a pole and it felt really good! I had no idea how it happened, but I obviously wanted to do it again.
